May 19, 2026 | Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
A Question to Ask Yourself:Which mind just took the wheel — and is that the one I actually want driving right now? Get In Touch The ABCs That We Are Missing What if you hadn’t learned your ABCs as a child, and you couldn’t read today? In a quieter way,...
May 10, 2026 | Design Table, Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
Guardian Guardian The fastest of your three intelligences. The one that knows before you do. What It Feels Like First You’re walking down a street you’ve walked a hundred times. Same block, same shops, nothing visibly different about the afternoon. And...
May 8, 2026 | Design Table, Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
Integration The condition in which the Three Minds are in sufficient functional relationship that energy arriving in the system can be metabolized into new capacity rather than shed as heat — the upstream state from which genuine response, genuine relationship, and...
May 4, 2026 | Design Table, Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
The Three Minds are not mental constructs that happen to be housed in a body. They are bodily systems first — operating through flesh, nervous tissue, and physiological state before they become available to conscious awareness. This is not a philosophical position. It...
May 3, 2026 | Design Table, Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
A way of seeing others that creates room for understanding instead of the quick judgments we all tend to make. What It Feels Like First You have been watching this colleague for months. Every time the team gets close to a breakthrough on the project, she finds a...
Apr 10, 2026 | Design Table, Kitchen Table, Transilience ABCs
Fragmentation Your nervous system’s survival design, working as intended — and what happens when the design is asked to do more than it was built for. What It Feels Like First You’re at dinner. A perfectly ordinary Wednesday. Your partner says something —...